Decision Making the Right Way

How Quick Decisions Made Me a Better Person

Whenever we make a decision, we take it based on our beliefs, experience and knowledge. And if we ask someone else for advice, They will decide on their beliefs and knowledge. How will you know at that time whether what is right and wrong?

 

Remember, take my words for it, Don't talk to anyone about what to do in this situation; it's a sign of stupid people. Never give this power to anybody. Because then you will get trap in it. If they say you don't do this and still you do, their ego will get hurt; they will say; if you were going to do what you wanted to do then, why you asked me am I stupid to you?

Its okay, If you are discussing something with someone, a discussion is not a bad thing.

 The most important thing we must are:

•  He has any experience related to that thing you are doing means that person has practically done something related to that field. If you found such a type of person, then it's great.

But it is not necessary that the person who is saying it, we should follow them blindly.

Because it is possible, someone tried acting but failed, you go to that person and discuss then what will that person say? he will:

• Discourage you by saying ,
  I couldn't succeed, how will you? Maybe he doesn't have talent, but you have.
• Tell you about its competition
  
•  show you its negative side only
  

 Now, what should we do?

Learn from  a failed person why and how he failed by observing or by asking question and do the same thing with the successful person , how he succeed?.

Whatever decision you are about to take do the following things,

•  analyze its all side; its worst-case and best-case scenario; are you prepared for both; if you say yes, you got a green signal. 
•  if you are ready for the only best-case; but unaware of the worst-case scenario, then don't do it. 

If there is a scenario, then there is a possibility of maybe 50-50 chance or 90-10% chance; are you mentally prepared for the worst-case scenario; this is calculating risk. If you can't manage the risk, then you will destroy your whole life.

 

 THINGS THAT YOU SHOULDN'T DO WHILE MAKING A WISE DECISION

 

For instance, you wanted to do a business, excited about it. You have to do this for that how many millions of loans are needed, make your family convinced by begging and fighting, their house got mortgaged, the family members must have bought that home with so much effort, your family lost in front of you, and they bow down to your stubbornness. You got no experience in it. Suddenly you took a big decision and failed, now will you have the money to repay the loan taken by mortgaging the house or not? No, you won't have that much money. Bank will take your home, you and your family will be begging on the road, it can be adventures to a fool. You might say that you are not ready for the worst-case but ready for the best case, So should this decision be taken or not? No.

 

For instance, You want to become an actor, and only analyze the positive side and lifestyle of the actors on their Instagram, you know what happens after becoming an actor, you have seen their fan following, which means you have seen its one side, and you do not look at the other side, in which people do not get food for four days, and those who have nothing in their actual. We have read those stories that for 20 to 30 years they struggled so much, got a role in this age nut we didn't read those cases that thousands and millions of such people behind them who got talent but nothing could make, We took our action on limited knowledge, So this is not the right action.   

• Action must always be taken by looking at both sides of the situation,

 I am taking time to explain what I am saying, but when you understood, you will make a decision quickly. I am telling you the way how I make decisions in my life.

•  If I want to do this what its worst-case and best-case scenario,
•  this is the worst-case alright, I am mentally financially physically prepared for it 
• let's do it.
•  If I am not ready for the worst-case scenario but the best-case scenario,
•  I will not do it.

 

It is just like scientific equations, which takes time to understand; but when you understood them, you can easily find the right answer.

There is nothing complicated in understanding both scenarios but do we do it? No, only a few people did it. 

We only see the worst-case scenario and get depressed, or we see the best-case and get excited and start fighting with everyone. 

Whatever you make the decision don't take it with your knowledge and experience, get neutral or detached and think and analyze both cases and get prepared for both and prepare my mindset financially, and other things relate to decision that even if I get fail, I must be ready for it.

That's all for today i will meet you with another blog thank you!